E6- Enlightened Consent for delicious kinky play with Ico

In this episode, I talk to Ico about their experience in Kink, the importance of conscious communication and enthusiastic consent and their awakening experiences through this exploration. 

We chat about

  • How communicating desires gets our needs met
  • Why we miss out on so many juicy interactions and experiences when we can't speak our needs
  • Why learning communication skills makes sex and kink so better
  • Why it's a gift for a submissive to say no and speak their boundaries

Here is the desire form mentioned in the episode-

Getting to Know Your Sexual Desires Worksheet: https://bit.ly/MySexDesires





About Ico

Ico, the Incredibly Caring Organism is a Wandering Love Mystic and uses They/Them pronouns. They are the founder of Enlightened Consent Foundation, which is causing a global paradigm shift in how humanity relates to sexuality and sexual expression. Their nonprofit provides kinky, polyamorous and LGBTQ+ identified people with transformative experiences and supportive resources so they get to experience being completely seen, honored, and loved. They are co-creating a world where everyone feels that they belong.


Ico's superpower is authentic sexuality and this matters to their clients because they get to experience being unconditionally loved and accepted no matter what position they are in. They work with individuals and groups of people to discover, embrace, and communicate what is true and authentic to their soul and what they need to have the most fulfilling love life and relationships that their heart desires.

Kinky, polyamorous, and queer people hire Ico to ignite their deepest darkest desires and manifest their hottest fantasies because most aren’t clear on what they actually want for themselves, are told that there’s something wrong or bad about their sexual desires or feel shame and guilt around what turns them on. Ico helps you get down, dirty, and direct with your desires, fantasies, and partners.

Ico has been studying the subjects of love, dating, sex, and attraction since 2004. They have had over 300 hours of training in recovery from trauma, Therapeutic Kink, Somatic Sensual Healing, and Energy Sex Facilitation. From these trainings, Ico has been able to empower their clients to get clarity on their needs and desires, become okay with wanting what their heart wants and learn the communication skills to be able to share those needs and desires with others so they get to experience them!

Ico is also a 2 time Amazon internationally best-selling co-author. Their first anthology, “Sexy Secrets to a Juicy Love Life” came out in March 2014. Their second book collaboration, “Ignite Love: Real Stories of Defining Love and Manifesting More of it in Your Everyday Life”, came out July 31st 2020, which made #1 in 11 categories across 7 countries.

To find out more about their nonprofit, Enlightened Consent Foundation, we invite you to go to EnlightenedConsent.org.

To find out more about Ico and their sacred sexuality coaching, we invite you to go to EnlightenedConsent.net, where you can get our FREE worksheet Getting to Know Your Sexual Desires, which will bring you another step closer to manifesting the love life that your heart currently desires.

Websites/Social Media Links:
Personal Coaching: EnlightenedConsent.net

Nonprofit: EnlightenedConsent.org

FB: https://facebook.com/bigfish0

FB Business page: https://facebook.com/EnlightenedConsentFoundation

IG/TikTok: @EnlightenedConsent

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChZSLm293LpKtLKcY2RodZA

Twitter: @NlightenConsent